The Effects of Yelling at Children

If you’ve ever been yelled at, you know that a loud voice does not make the message clearer. Your children are no different. Shouting will make them tune out and discipline will be harder, since each time you raise your voice lowers their receptivity.

Recent research points out that yelling makes children more aggressive, physically and verbally. Yelling in general, no matter what the context, is an expression of anger. It scares children and makes them feel insecure.

Calmness, on the other hand, is reassuring, which makes children feel loved and accepted in spite of bad behavior.

If yelling at children is not a good thing, yelling that comes with verbal putdowns and insults can be qualified as emotional abuse. It’s been shown to have long-term effects, like anxiety, low self-esteem, and increased aggression.

It also makes children more susceptible to bullying since their understanding of healthy boundaries and self-respect are skewed.

Source: healthline.com